Posts on "Happiness"

I Create Awesome Realities—I Just Can’t Keep ‘Em!

I Create Awesome Realities—I Just Can’t Keep ‘Em!

When we create the realities we desire, all is well with the world. We believe in our magic and our power and we couldn’t be more excited about our dreams and our future. But when we lose those very same realities we just took credit for creating, it’s more devastating than losing the success itself. […]

How to Work with an Accountability Partner

How to Work with an Accountability Partner

When my life was a living hell, my motivation to do the work was ending the pain—the pain of scarcity, the pain of confusion, the pain of disappointment. When I did “the work” my life changed. That was motivation enough. But for many people, motivation is tough to maintain—especially if life is going okay—not great, […]

Time Lag: Your best friend, your worst enemy

Time Lag: Your best friend, your worst enemy

  A 16-year-old friend of mine was fast asleep in my guest room when a miss-set alarm clock began ringing loudly in the middle of the night. The next day he told me how the sudden noise threw him into a state of panic, “I thought it was the scream of a clown standing over […]

Keeping Positive When You Hate What You’re Doing

Keeping Positive When You Hate What You’re Doing

It sucks when you hate your life—even when you hate part of your life. After you discover that you create your own reality, it can be doubly frustrating, because then you know that you are creating it—consciously or unconsciously. So, if you find yourself doing what you hate and you know that your feelings of […]

What to Do When Darkness Envelops You

What to Do When Darkness Envelops You

Hi Boni, I recently became interested in the law of attraction. Then, I found your page! I was ecstatic to find a method to help me move past the negativity in my life. A few days later I felt like the darkness hit me (times 10!) and has put me in a funk the last […]

Why Children “Create” Abusive Lives

Why Children “Create” Abusive Lives

Dear Boni, Please explain to me how I could have possibly created being born into a family that suffered with addiction and were both violent and abusive? I didn’t have beliefs or thoughts prior to all of this. Instead, my beliefs were formed because of this. We are born with a blank, or open, mind, […]