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Keeping Positive When You Hate What You’re Doing

Keeping Positive When You Hate What You’re Doing

It sucks when you hate your life—even when you hate part of your life. After you discover that you create your own reality, it can be doubly frustrating, because then you know that you are creating it—consciously or unconsciously. So, if you find yourself doing what you hate and you know that your feelings of […]

What to Do When Darkness Envelops You

What to Do When Darkness Envelops You

Hi Boni, I recently became interested in the law of attraction. Then, I found your page! I was ecstatic to find a method to help me move past the negativity in my life. A few days later I felt like the darkness hit me (times 10!) and has put me in a funk the last […]

Did I Create the Death of My Loved One?

Did I Create the Death of My Loved One?

Dear Boni, My stepfather passed away last week. I miss him very much. I’ve been reading about taking full responsibility for every aspect of my life. To me this means I’m responsible for (or had a part to play in) him getting cancer and the timing of his death. I’m struggling with feelings of guilt […]

Does the Law of Attraction Really Work?

Does the Law of Attraction Really Work?

The law of attraction is the best-kept secret in the world. We’re not taught about it as children—most of us grow up believing our world is a result of simple cause and effect. And then we come across the astounding information that we create it all—and we are amazed, and excited and quite honestly, stunned. […]

Why Children “Create” Abusive Lives

Why Children “Create” Abusive Lives

Dear Boni, Please explain to me how I could have possibly created being born into a family that suffered with addiction and were both violent and abusive? I didn’t have beliefs or thoughts prior to all of this. Instead, my beliefs were formed because of this. We are born with a blank, or open, mind, […]

Finding Support in Learning to Create Your Reality

Finding Support in Learning to Create Your Reality

Dear Boni, I read The Map from front to back and started writing intentions, journaling, etc. I’m not new to self-help books, psychologists, attitudinal healing etc. And although I have achieved a lot, I’m lost again. Is there a group email or some way I can reach out to people within this framework you have […]