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Why Children “Create” Abusive Lives

Why Children “Create” Abusive Lives


Dear Boni, Please explain to me how I could have possibly created being born into a family that suffered with addiction and were both violent and abusive? I didn’t have beliefs or thoughts prior to all of this. Instead, my beliefs were formed because of this. We are born with a blank, or open, mind, […]

How to Test Yourself for Beliefs

How to Test Yourself for Beliefs


Excerpt from The Map to Abundance “Our bodies can talk. And they don’t lie.” – Uwe Albrecht, author of Yes/No: Using the Arm-Length Test for Instant Answers & Wellbeing For most people, the most challenging aspect of changing beliefs is determining what the beliefs are that need changing. Of course, one way to determine your […]

Finding Support in Learning to Create Your Reality

Finding Support in Learning to Create Your Reality


Dear Boni, I read The Map from front to back and started writing intentions, journaling, etc. I’m not new to self-help books, psychologists, attitudinal healing etc. And although I have achieved a lot, I’m lost again. Is there a group email or some way I can reach out to people within this framework you have […]

7 Ways to Increase Abundance in Your Life – TODAY!

7 Ways to Increase Abundance in Your Life – TODAY!


7 Ways to Increase Abundance in Your Life – TODAY! When I first heard about the Law of Attraction I was gobsmacked (there just isn’t a better word for it). “What?” I thought, “We create our literal world?” I didn’t look for the quantum physics proof. I didn’t need it proven to me. Somehow, from […]

How to Lovingly Turn Down Requests for Money

How to Lovingly Turn Down Requests for Money


How to (Lovingly) Turn Down Requests for Money You want to create abundance—lots of money and other abundances as well. But there’s a nagging little voice in your head that whispers, “But what happens if I do become rich? Will my family and friends come out of the woodwork seeking to share in my newfound […]

How Can I Get Him to Commit?

How Can I Get Him to Commit?


How Can I Get Him to Commit Dear Boni, There is a man in my life whom I adore, although he has some traits that I find troublesome—namely his lack of commitment. How do I get him to be more attracted to me and ultimately, commit to me? Signed, Unlucky in Love _____________________________ Dear Love, […]