Posts on "Love"

About My Divorce

About My Divorce

I knew it would happen. Once I announced that my marriage had ended I knew there would be those who would be disappointed and disillusioned with my work (and me). I guess that’s one reason I waited until I was strong, and (mostly) healed to make the news public. Thankfully, my announcement brought mostly support. […]

Are You Using Your Thoughts to Create Divorce?

Are You Using Your Thoughts to Create Divorce?

Thoughts are powerful. My friend Claire knows this firsthand. Claire was livid that her husband of 25 years was stingy to a fault and would help only with the bare minimum. He’d get up in the morning and make his side of the bed—leaving hers a mess. “Why can’t he do more?” she lamented. I […]

20 Action Steps to Attract the Love of Your Life!

20 Action Steps to Attract the Love of Your Life!

Attracting the love of your life is a dream of many. It was my dream, and it took many years for me to figure out how to create that love. But not a day goes by that I’m not grateful for the man who is now my husband. The good news is, it doesn’t have […]

But I WANT a Specific Intention!

But I WANT a Specific Intention!

Dear Boni, I am a girl from Asia, and I have spent my last few years studying in America. During this time, I found out that I am more attracted to white men instead of men from my own country (not just because of the look, but also the culture, manner, etc.). But my family […]

I Want THAT Man!

I Want THAT Man!

Dear Boni, Can I choose my future husband—even thought this man doesn’t live in the same city as I do, we haven’t met in person and he doesn’t know I exist? With gratitude, Hopeful _________________________ Dear Hopeful, Sorry to dash your hopes, but no, you cannot choose your future husband by picking out someone whom […]