Posts on "Relationships"

How Can I Get Him to Commit?

How Can I Get Him to Commit?

How Can I Get Him to Commit Dear Boni, There is a man in my life whom I adore, although he has some traits that I find troublesome—namely his lack of commitment. How do I get him to be more attracted to me and ultimately, commit to me? Signed, Unlucky in Love _____________________________ Dear Love, […]

About My Divorce

About My Divorce

I knew it would happen. Once I announced that my marriage had ended I knew there would be those who would be disappointed and disillusioned with my work (and me). I guess that’s one reason I waited until I was strong, and (mostly) healed to make the news public. Thankfully, my announcement brought mostly support. […]

Are You Using Your Thoughts to Create Divorce?

Are You Using Your Thoughts to Create Divorce?

Thoughts are powerful. My friend Claire knows this firsthand. Claire was livid that her husband of 25 years was stingy to a fault and would help only with the bare minimum. He’d get up in the morning and make his side of the bed—leaving hers a mess. “Why can’t he do more?” she lamented. I […]

20 Action Steps to Attract the Love of Your Life!

20 Action Steps to Attract the Love of Your Life!

Attracting the love of your life is a dream of many. It was my dream, and it took many years for me to figure out how to create that love. But not a day goes by that I’m not grateful for the man who is now my husband. The good news is, it doesn’t have […]

How Can I “Live a Life I Love” While So Many Suffer?

How Can I “Live a Life I Love” While So Many Suffer?

  Dear Boni, I realize I have a belief: “In order to cultivate compassion and to help people, I have to suffer their suffering.” Basically, I believe that by suffering I can be on the same frequency as other human beings and therefore be able to communicate to them. If I were fully healthy, wealthy […]

But I WANT a Specific Intention!

But I WANT a Specific Intention!

Dear Boni, I am a girl from Asia, and I have spent my last few years studying in America. During this time, I found out that I am more attracted to white men instead of men from my own country (not just because of the look, but also the culture, manner, etc.). But my family […]