Posts on "Step 7 – Ask for help"

How to Work with an Accountability Partner

How to Work with an Accountability Partner

When my life was a living hell, my motivation to do the work was ending the pain—the pain of scarcity, the pain of confusion, the pain of disappointment. When I did “the work” my life changed. That was motivation enough. But for many people, motivation is tough to maintain—especially if life is going okay—not great, […]

Why Children “Create” Abusive Lives

Why Children “Create” Abusive Lives

Dear Boni, Please explain to me how I could have possibly created being born into a family that suffered with addiction and were both violent and abusive? I didn’t have beliefs or thoughts prior to all of this. Instead, my beliefs were formed because of this. We are born with a blank, or open, mind, […]

Finding Support in Learning to Create Your Reality

Finding Support in Learning to Create Your Reality

Dear Boni, I read The Map from front to back and started writing intentions, journaling, etc. I’m not new to self-help books, psychologists, attitudinal healing etc. And although I have achieved a lot, I’m lost again. Is there a group email or some way I can reach out to people within this framework you have […]

Do Psychics Help (or Hurt) Your Ability to Create?

Do Psychics Help (or Hurt) Your Ability to Create?

Do Psychics Help (or Hurt) Your Ability to Create? I’ll never forget my first visit to a psychic. I was an emotional wreck. I had quit graduate school and had no idea what to do next, my mom had recently passed, my brother had had an industrial accident and lost his leg. And I was […]

The Zen Guide to the Law of Attraction

The Zen Guide to the Law of Attraction

A young man named Evan was thinking about having a good meal and a hot shower as he walked the streets of downtown Denver. Evan was homeless at the time—proving a point to society and himself that he would live his life his way, and his way only. But not having possessions or a place […]

The Universe Delivered—But How Do I KNOW It’s My Dream?

The Universe Delivered—But How Do I KNOW It’s My Dream?

Dear Boni, I have been amazed (in both big and small ways) that what I have intended to create has actually come to fruition. At least, I believe that it has. And, therein lies my question. How does one know when an opportunity arises that it is the one that you wanted to create? I’ve […]