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Are You Using Your Thoughts to Create Divorce?

Are You Using Your Thoughts to Create Divorce?

Thoughts are powerful. My friend Claire knows this firsthand. Claire was livid that her husband of 25 years was stingy to a fault and would help only with the bare minimum. He’d get up in the morning and make his side of the bed—leaving hers a mess. “Why can’t he do more?” she lamented. I […]

10 Ways to Change Your Life TODAY

10 Ways to Change Your Life TODAY

Maybe you can’t get a degree, run a marathon or meet your soulmate today. But if you want a better life—to be happier, more prosperous, have more love, more fun, better health, etc.—the power is within you to change your life. And you don’t have to wait. There are things you can do today that […]

The Real Reason You Can’t Stay Happy (And what to do about it!)

The Real Reason You Can’t Stay Happy (And what to do about it!)

We’ve all been there. Our life is fine—no big complaints. In fact, a lot to be grateful for—a roof over our head, people who love us, intelligence, health and an able body. And yet, we find ourselves struggling to be happy. What gives?  Why does happiness seem to be a roller coaster at times, and—more […]

How to Get Motivated (When You’re Not)

How to Get Motivated (When You’re Not)

Hello Boni! I have a problem. I know what I want out of this life—amazing love, great friends, travel experiences, laughter, meaningful conversations, just plain fun, losing pounds, gaining money and helping people get healthy. But I’m in a depressed and anxious rut. I’ve struggled with severe anxiety for eleven years and can’t even seem […]

Does Your Dream Refuse to Manifest? THIS is why…

Does Your Dream Refuse to Manifest? THIS is why…

  If I’ve heard it once, I’ve heard it a hundred times, “But Boni, I followed everything in the book and it just isn’t working!” “It ALWAYS works,” I counter. Still it hadn’t work for them. And it may not be working for you. And, like everything, everywhere, everywhen, there is always a reason it […]

7 Surprising Reasons You Keep Creating Chaos

7 Surprising Reasons You Keep Creating Chaos

Yeah, you say you want your life to settle down and have things work out for you. But week after week, month after month, year after year, there might be different players, different facts, but it’s always the same old story. You may as well face it—chaos, for you dear friend, is a way of […]