Posts on "Challenges with others"

How to Lovingly Turn Down Requests for Money

How to Lovingly Turn Down Requests for Money

How to (Lovingly) Turn Down Requests for Money You want to create abundance—lots of money and other abundances as well. But there’s a nagging little voice in your head that whispers, “But what happens if I do become rich? Will my family and friends come out of the woodwork seeking to share in my newfound […]

How Can I Get Him to Commit?

How Can I Get Him to Commit?

How Can I Get Him to Commit Dear Boni, There is a man in my life whom I adore, although he has some traits that I find troublesome—namely his lack of commitment. How do I get him to be more attracted to me and ultimately, commit to me? Signed, Unlucky in Love _____________________________ Dear Love, […]

About My Divorce

About My Divorce

I knew it would happen. Once I announced that my marriage had ended I knew there would be those who would be disappointed and disillusioned with my work (and me). I guess that’s one reason I waited until I was strong, and (mostly) healed to make the news public. Thankfully, my announcement brought mostly support. […]

Are You Using Your Thoughts to Create Divorce?

Are You Using Your Thoughts to Create Divorce?

Thoughts are powerful. My friend Claire knows this firsthand. Claire was livid that her husband of 25 years was stingy to a fault and would help only with the bare minimum. He’d get up in the morning and make his side of the bed—leaving hers a mess. “Why can’t he do more?” she lamented. I […]

I Want THAT Man!

I Want THAT Man!

Dear Boni, Can I choose my future husband—even thought this man doesn’t live in the same city as I do, we haven’t met in person and he doesn’t know I exist? With gratitude, Hopeful _________________________ Dear Hopeful, Sorry to dash your hopes, but no, you cannot choose your future husband by picking out someone whom […]

It’s Beyond My Control! (Or is it?)

It’s Beyond My Control! (Or is it?)

Dear Boni, I have a neighbor who washes non-stop with a very loud washing machine. Talking to her does not help. I would love to create a quiet, peaceful surrounding but I don´t know how to let go of that feeling of anger and helplessness when the noise goes on. Kind regards, Frustrated ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Dear […]