Posts on "Challenges with others"

About My Divorce

About My Divorce

I knew it would happen. Once I announced that my marriage had ended I knew there would be those who would be disappointed and disillusioned with my work (and me). I guess that’s one reason I waited until I was strong, and (mostly) healed to make the news public. Thankfully, my announcement brought mostly support. […]

Are You Using Your Thoughts to Create Divorce?

Are You Using Your Thoughts to Create Divorce?

Thoughts are powerful. My friend Claire knows this firsthand. Claire was livid that her husband of 25 years was stingy to a fault and would help only with the bare minimum. He’d get up in the morning and make his side of the bed—leaving hers a mess. “Why can’t he do more?” she lamented. I […]

I Want THAT Man!

I Want THAT Man!

Dear Boni, Can I choose my future husband—even thought this man doesn’t live in the same city as I do, we haven’t met in person and he doesn’t know I exist? With gratitude, Hopeful _________________________ Dear Hopeful, Sorry to dash your hopes, but no, you cannot choose your future husband by picking out someone whom […]

It’s Beyond My Control! (Or is it?)

It’s Beyond My Control! (Or is it?)

Dear Boni, I have a neighbor who washes non-stop with a very loud washing machine. Talking to her does not help. I would love to create a quiet, peaceful surrounding but I don´t know how to let go of that feeling of anger and helplessness when the noise goes on. Kind regards, Frustrated ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Dear […]

Forgiving the Unforgivable

Forgiving the Unforgivable

Life is messy.  Oh it would be nice if it were all “Leave it to Beaver” polite and “Norman Rockwell” portraits. But it’s not. We screw up. We do things we regret. And others do some pretty nasty stuff to us. People can be unconscionable, rude, calculating, controlling, hurtful and shaming. People can cause wounds […]

Must the Darkness Affect Us All?

Must the Darkness Affect Us All?

Dear Boni, I understand that we do affect everyone else with the vibrations we send out to the universe. But does that mean other people’s negativity affects us? Signed, Wondering Dear Wondering, That is a really good question! Because we are all a piece of God and Goddess, and All That Is, yes, we each […]