Posts on "Q & A"

Did I Create the Death of My Loved One?

Did I Create the Death of My Loved One?

Dear Boni, My stepfather passed away last week. I miss him very much. I’ve been reading about taking full responsibility for every aspect of my life. To me this means I’m responsible for (or had a part to play in) him getting cancer and the timing of his death. I’m struggling with feelings of guilt […]

Does the Law of Attraction Really Work?

Does the Law of Attraction Really Work?

The law of attraction is the best-kept secret in the world. We’re not taught about it as children—most of us grow up believing our world is a result of simple cause and effect. And then we come across the astounding information that we create it all—and we are amazed, and excited and quite honestly, stunned. […]

Why Children “Create” Abusive Lives

Why Children “Create” Abusive Lives

Dear Boni, Please explain to me how I could have possibly created being born into a family that suffered with addiction and were both violent and abusive? I didn’t have beliefs or thoughts prior to all of this. Instead, my beliefs were formed because of this. We are born with a blank, or open, mind, […]

Finding Support in Learning to Create Your Reality

Finding Support in Learning to Create Your Reality

Dear Boni, I read The Map from front to back and started writing intentions, journaling, etc. I’m not new to self-help books, psychologists, attitudinal healing etc. And although I have achieved a lot, I’m lost again. Is there a group email or some way I can reach out to people within this framework you have […]

How Can I Get Him to Commit?

How Can I Get Him to Commit?

How Can I Get Him to Commit Dear Boni, There is a man in my life whom I adore, although he has some traits that I find troublesome—namely his lack of commitment. How do I get him to be more attracted to me and ultimately, commit to me? Signed, Unlucky in Love _____________________________ Dear Love, […]

Do Psychics Help (or Hurt) Your Ability to Create?

Do Psychics Help (or Hurt) Your Ability to Create?

Do Psychics Help (or Hurt) Your Ability to Create? I’ll never forget my first visit to a psychic. I was an emotional wreck. I had quit graduate school and had no idea what to do next, my mom had recently passed, my brother had had an industrial accident and lost his leg. And I was […]