Posts on "Q & A"

But I WANT a Specific Intention!

But I WANT a Specific Intention!

Dear Boni, I am a girl from Asia, and I have spent my last few years studying in America. During this time, I found out that I am more attracted to white men instead of men from my own country (not just because of the look, but also the culture, manner, etc.). But my family […]

I Want THAT Man!

I Want THAT Man!

Dear Boni, Can I choose my future husband—even thought this man doesn’t live in the same city as I do, we haven’t met in person and he doesn’t know I exist? With gratitude, Hopeful _________________________ Dear Hopeful, Sorry to dash your hopes, but no, you cannot choose your future husband by picking out someone whom […]

Is It OK to Steal Intentions?

Is It OK to Steal Intentions?

  Question: So, I am reading your book, “The Map”. I love how you have written your intentions and most of your intentions fit my intentions. Do I have to write them my own words when my consciousness has already supplied me yours? Answer: You do not have to rewrite any of the intentions that […]

It’s Beyond My Control! (Or is it?)

It’s Beyond My Control! (Or is it?)

Dear Boni, I have a neighbor who washes non-stop with a very loud washing machine. Talking to her does not help. I would love to create a quiet, peaceful surrounding but I don´t know how to let go of that feeling of anger and helplessness when the noise goes on. Kind regards, Frustrated ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Dear […]

Frequently Asked Questions About “The Map”

Frequently Asked Questions About “The Map”

People have been reading (and loving) “The Map”. And even though it is a complete practical guide to manifestation, questions still arise. Here are some of the most common: On Creating Your Own Reality Question: So, if I really believed this worked, I wouldn’t have to lock my doors, right? Answer: No. If you really […]

I Did Something SO Horrible—How Can I Forgive Myself?

I Did Something SO Horrible—How Can I Forgive Myself?

I received this message from a fellow creator: Dear Boni, I am in desperate need of help and some comforting words. I did something horrible and I’m wondering if I can get some advice from you so I can accept this, forgive myself and move forward.   I slept with my sister’s husband! I can’t even […]