Posts on "Q & A"

It’s Beyond My Control! (Or is it?)

It’s Beyond My Control! (Or is it?)

Dear Boni, I have a neighbor who washes non-stop with a very loud washing machine. Talking to her does not help. I would love to create a quiet, peaceful surrounding but I don´t know how to let go of that feeling of anger and helplessness when the noise goes on. Kind regards, Frustrated ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Dear […]

Frequently Asked Questions About “The Map”

Frequently Asked Questions About “The Map”

People have been reading (and loving) “The Map”. And even though it is a complete practical guide to manifestation, questions still arise. Here are some of the most common: On Creating Your Own Reality Question: So, if I really believed this worked, I wouldn’t have to lock my doors, right? Answer: No. If you really […]

I Did Something SO Horrible—How Can I Forgive Myself?

I Did Something SO Horrible—How Can I Forgive Myself?

I received this message from a fellow creator: Dear Boni, I am in desperate need of help and some comforting words. I did something horrible and I’m wondering if I can get some advice from you so I can accept this, forgive myself and move forward.   I slept with my sister’s husband! I can’t even […]

What ‘Have Tos’ Are Shackling You?

What ‘Have Tos’ Are Shackling You?

Dear Boni, I’m a college student who wants to study hard and work hard to receive good grades but I don’t feel much motivation to get my work done. My dream is to sing and make music for a living. I’m a journalism major, and I know I love writing and I love the idea […]

Breaking the Cycle of Scarcity

Breaking the Cycle of Scarcity

Hi Boni, My husband and I are in the agricultural business. We recently moved to a very, very remote ranch. This move meant living in a location we both loved, but it also meant that I had to quit my job. For 6 months now, I have been trying to find something I can do […]

Must the Darkness Affect Us All?

Must the Darkness Affect Us All?

Dear Boni, I understand that we do affect everyone else with the vibrations we send out to the universe. But does that mean other people’s negativity affects us? Signed, Wondering Dear Wondering, That is a really good question! Because we are all a piece of God and Goddess, and All That Is, yes, we each […]