Posts on "Q & A"

Why Should You Listen to Me?

Why Should You Listen to Me?

A reader asked recently: “And if your own life is not exactly as you yourself wish it all of the time, what impels you to believe that you can help anyone else ‘create’ their personal reality?” ~ Curious Dear Curious, Good question. I have thought a lot about how much to tell of what I […]

Seriously – Why do you even need me?

Seriously – Why do you even need me?

Dear Boni, What can you do for me that I cannot do for myself? And if your own life is not exactly  as you yourself wish it all of the time, what impels you to believe that you can help any one else “create” their personal reality? Cynical Dear Cynical, I can do nothing for […]

How to Change Unrequited Love

How to Change Unrequited Love

Dear Boni. Hello from Athens Greece! I have read your articles for the past 5 years and they are great. At this point of my life I have a difficult situation to deal with and maybe you can help me. My intention is to create a relationship with a really nice young man with whom […]

Skeptical? Join the club!

Skeptical? Join the club!

  Dear Boni, There are a lot of things I’d like to have in my life… more money, a job I really love, a relationship that works better than the one I have now, more happiness, fewer problems, the list goes on and on. But I have to admit I’m a little skeptical, hell, I’m […]

Dealing with the chaos – not for the weak of heart

Dealing with the chaos – not for the weak of heart

  SR asks: “How do you deal with the chaos?  It seems like changes are coming into my life in just about every arena.  My business is growing but demanding I learn much more intensive bookkeeping practices, my home is being repaired and improved but demanding all kinds of old stuff be cleared out, my organic […]

From ‘What’s the use?’ to ‘Totally juiced!’

From ‘What’s the use?’ to ‘Totally juiced!’

Dear Boni, If this is all a dream, than it is up to us to attach our own meaning to it. And I think that is where I get stuck. Friends of mine with kids find meaning there, others find meaning making money, and some people let others decide what is meaningful to them. Most […]