Posts on "When bad things happen"

What to Do When Darkness Envelops You

What to Do When Darkness Envelops You

Hi Boni, I recently became interested in the law of attraction. Then, I found your page! I was ecstatic to find a method to help me move past the negativity in my life. A few days later I felt like the darkness hit me (times 10!) and has put me in a funk the last […]

Did I Create the Death of My Loved One?

Did I Create the Death of My Loved One?

Dear Boni, My stepfather passed away last week. I miss him very much. I’ve been reading about taking full responsibility for every aspect of my life. To me this means I’m responsible for (or had a part to play in) him getting cancer and the timing of his death. I’m struggling with feelings of guilt […]

Why Children “Create” Abusive Lives

Why Children “Create” Abusive Lives

Dear Boni, Please explain to me how I could have possibly created being born into a family that suffered with addiction and were both violent and abusive? I didn’t have beliefs or thoughts prior to all of this. Instead, my beliefs were formed because of this. We are born with a blank, or open, mind, […]

Do Psychics Help (or Hurt) Your Ability to Create?

Do Psychics Help (or Hurt) Your Ability to Create?

Do Psychics Help (or Hurt) Your Ability to Create? I’ll never forget my first visit to a psychic. I was an emotional wreck. I had quit graduate school and had no idea what to do next, my mom had recently passed, my brother had had an industrial accident and lost his leg. And I was […]

About My Divorce

About My Divorce

I knew it would happen. Once I announced that my marriage had ended I knew there would be those who would be disappointed and disillusioned with my work (and me). I guess that’s one reason I waited until I was strong, and (mostly) healed to make the news public. Thankfully, my announcement brought mostly support. […]

The Best Law of Attraction Quotes

The Best Law of Attraction Quotes

Sometimes you just want a bite-sized piece of truth. I’ve been studying the law of attraction for nearly three decades, and these are my absolute favorite law of attraction quotes: “Your harshest truths are dreams, and your gentlest dreams are true.” ~ Richard Bach “Consciousness is, among other things, a spontaneous exercise in creativity. You […]