Posts on "When bad things happen"

I Create Awesome Realities—I Just Can’t Keep ‘Em!

I Create Awesome Realities—I Just Can’t Keep ‘Em!

When we create the realities we desire, all is well with the world. We believe in our magic and our power and we couldn’t be more excited about our dreams and our future. But when we lose those very same realities we just took credit for creating, it’s more devastating than losing the success itself. […]

Did I Create the Atrocities in the World?

Did I Create the Atrocities in the World?

  You “get it”—that you create it all. You’re super excited. Why, there are no limits to what you can create—to what you can impact! You wonder, “Just how far does my power reach?” And then you remember all the horrible realities that have manifested on this planet—and you think, “Did I create that?” It’s […]

Time Lag: Your best friend, your worst enemy

Time Lag: Your best friend, your worst enemy

  A 16-year-old friend of mine was fast asleep in my guest room when a miss-set alarm clock began ringing loudly in the middle of the night. The next day he told me how the sudden noise threw him into a state of panic, “I thought it was the scream of a clown standing over […]

Keeping Positive When You Hate What You’re Doing

Keeping Positive When You Hate What You’re Doing

It sucks when you hate your life—even when you hate part of your life. After you discover that you create your own reality, it can be doubly frustrating, because then you know that you are creating it—consciously or unconsciously. So, if you find yourself doing what you hate and you know that your feelings of […]

What to Do When Darkness Envelops You

What to Do When Darkness Envelops You

Hi Boni, I recently became interested in the law of attraction. Then, I found your page! I was ecstatic to find a method to help me move past the negativity in my life. A few days later I felt like the darkness hit me (times 10!) and has put me in a funk the last […]

Did I Create the Death of My Loved One?

Did I Create the Death of My Loved One?

Dear Boni, My stepfather passed away last week. I miss him very much. I’ve been reading about taking full responsibility for every aspect of my life. To me this means I’m responsible for (or had a part to play in) him getting cancer and the timing of his death. I’m struggling with feelings of guilt […]