Messages from your Unseen Friends



You’re starting to get it aren’t you?

You are here to be in joy. You are here to have fun. You are here to allow success. And you are here to be loved.

Of course, you are here to love as well. But that part you’ve always done well with.

It’s the “being loved” that you’ve struggled with. You want to judge yourself. You want to hold yourself to impossible standards. You want to keep yourself bound to the past as some type of penance.

But Friend, in order to accept your destiny, your life of bliss, you must forgive yourself for the past. You must forgive all of the mistakes you’ve made, all of the times you could have “done it better,” all the less than loving actions towards yourself and others. Forgive them.

Because you can’t take grudges into bliss. They just won’t go. Judgmental energy says: “I do not deserve.” And bliss says, “I abso-friggin-lutley deserve.” (Sorry for my stark language, but I really want you to pay attention here.)

It’s your choice dear one. Forgive and enable bliss, or don’t forgive and keep creating the same old thing.

I love you either way,

Your Higher Self

P.S. You can say you will forgive yourself, but unless you feel it, it won’t work. Just an FYI…

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  1. Marjorie

    Thank you for staying in touch with me. Everytime I read your email it seems that you know me better than I know myself and your mail is always on time.

  2. Wendy

    I love this message.

    Forgiveness is bliss. I was abused as a kid. At 57, I’ve forgiven them and now feel happy anticipation for the day I leave this planet and see them again. I never thought I’d be saying that!

  3. Judith

    A perfect reminder for today! Thank you Higher Self…Gotta keep that in mind. Thank you…Judy

  4. Berenice Ibarra

    I’m letting go…the past and forgiving myself!! Thank you! I needed it to hear those words! Blessings

    • Boni


      “Feeling” the forgiveness is honestly letting it be real for you. So that after you’ve felt it, you feel lighter, free-er. There are some posts on this site that will explain more.

      xo Boni

  5. Karyn

    I do absolfrigalutlely deserve to feel better! Thanks! You are always so on for me..feeling flat & fat today! Hahahaha


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