Is It Too Good To Be True?


By Boni Lonnsburry


Successful yet Shocked

Dear Boni,

My life is changing rapidly and everything I have intended is coming true! Should I be nervous that my creations are all happening like this?

It almost freaks me out a little bit. I am not fearful at all inside because I know this is all a journey, but it does kind of overwhelm me that I quite possibly can be THIS powerful? Any insight for me on this new feeling I have?

Signed,
Successful & A Little Shocked

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Dear Successful,

Your feelings are absolutely normal. You are an immensely powerful divine being, having a physical lifetime where you are just discovering the implications of that divinity (meaning you have the ability of the gods and goddesses to create your reality) and that power (meaning there are no limitations on what you can create on this planet). Who wouldn’t be a bit overwhelmed when that knowledge sinks in?

First – congratulations on your successes.

I know you haven’t been at this very long, and that you have allowed so many wonderful successes in your life and the lives of others near you is evidence of your courage and love for yourself and others. That is really awesome!

Second – this is a time to really pay attention to your reality and your emotions.

What I suggest you to pay attention to is whether you see any signs of difficulty or a snapback. In other words, things going wrong or recurring fear or anxiety.

Now this does not have to happen. And certainly don’t expect it. But with some people it does. Why? Because sometimes we can’t sustain quick positive changes. Our realities get out ahead of who we think we are deep inside.

So if it does happen, just take some time to figure out why. Oftentimes it is because of a belief like:

“Things can only get so good.”
“I really don’t deserve to have everything wonderful.”

“Any day now, the other shoe will drop.”

And more importantly, a preventative measure: Work on your self-image every day (in the shower is a good time to do this), stretching into the being you want to be a year from now.

Third – You can always slow down or speed up growth and changes.

Just ask your Higher Self.

And finally, don’t forget to dream new dreams!

Some people who don’t do this tear down the dream that just manifest just so they can create it again. Don’t let that be you!

Again, nice creations Successful!

With love

boni_sig
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Boni Lonnsburry is the author of three books including The Map - To Our Responsive Universe, Where Dreams Really Do Come True and the founder of Creation School, a place to develop conscious creation skills into artistry.






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  1. Mike

    I think that “change” in general can be pretty scary, Boni, whether good or bad. Through these years, I’ve been through many changes in my life: moved to a new house, lost my uncle, got the vacation I’ve long waited for, and got a new dog (and new responsibility… an adorable responsibility). As long as you don’t let them, nothing can stop you from moving forward and achieving your dreams, so keep up the good work Successful! This a beautiful post, Boni! Great job! More power to you and your blog!

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    • Boni

      Mike,

      Yes, change can be petrifying. Sometimes the good change is scarier than the bad. The trick for me has been learning how to deal with the fears, panics, feelings of inadequacy when faced with obstacles, etc. Once you have tools it does get easier. IF you remember to use them! :)

      And thank your for your kind words, Mike!

      xo
      Boni

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      • April

        Boni, have you or are you planning on writing anything about fear of change and how to soften that fear? This is a bit of a problem for me, and I’d like to hear what you have to say about that.

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        • Boni

          Hi April,

          I haven’t written anything specifically addressing fear of change although I’ve touched on the subject here and there. I will write about it though…I think it affects many of us! Thanks for the suggestion!

          xxoo
          Boni

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    • Boni

      I agree Danielle! It is sometimes hard work but the benefits can be astounding!!!
      xo

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  2. Cloris Kylie

    Great article, Boni! I think that sometimes negative emotions have become so habitual that when they’re gone, a small part of us subconsciously misses them…

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    • Boni

      I agree Cloris. We are oftentimes happy to settle for what we know than to risk the uncomfortable feelings of change. But luckily we’re also dreamers, hope-rs and love-rs and so we keep searching, yearning and growing. xo

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    • Boni

      Thanks Deborah. Yeah, it is funny and kind of sad too. People would be astounded to realize the scope and breadth of their own power. So we let it in little bit by little bit. And that’s ok too. :) xo

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  3. Lynnae Bowen

    Thank you. I really needed to hear this. I created and then realized that there was another belief about “controlling the manifesting ” , crazy lol. I was reminded to work on self image and to ask my higher self which I always forget . Another belief that I have to do this alone. Great stuff.

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    • Boni

      Thanks Lynnae! Control is one of the biggies for all of us. Trick is to recognize it, which you have done. Congrats! xo

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  4. tammy

    Incredible. I can see myself in each of the things you share. I seem to keep going around & around in the same circle. I am going to continue to continue. Love this article.

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    • Boni

      Tammy, I love “continue to continue”. If we keep moving forward, even incrementally, we WILL get there. (And sometimes a circle is really a spiral!) xo

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  5. Vee

    Thank you! That is the truth nothing can stop you from what we want to accomplish! God is great!

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    • Boni

      Vee, WE are the only thing that can stop us from what we want to accomplish. And that’s great news!! xo

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      • Colleen

        What about the sick starving terminal ill dying how come it doesn’t work for them when they pray, ask, plead and beg for help and cures to no longer suffer to have food to end war etc.?

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        • Boni

          Colleen,

          It works for everyone. Pleading, begging and asking to have it “created for you” will only attract more realities to plead, beg and ask to be lifted from. These people are creating “unconsciously”, not consciously. Of course they don’t “want” those realities. But in order to change them they must come from a place of empowerment, not victimhood. I hope this helps Colleen!

          love,
          Boni

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